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chase those Monday blues
waking up on a Monday morning to head to work is one of the most... mundane things ever.
NONETHELESS, I AM THANKFUL THAT I AM MEANINGFULLY EMPLOYED AND THAT I ENJOY WHAT I DID
met Joey for lunch today and that one hour was not enough!!!!!! we merely chatted a bit about her grad trip and my grad trip and then an hour had flown past and it was time to go back to the office T.T why does time fly when you're having fun???? (time also flies in the office; does that mean i'm having a lot of fun?)
i'm thankful that Joey asked about traveling together as a couple pre-marriage. i need to write this down so that one day, (if) i get into a relationship, then i'll remember this piece of advice that i told her.
going on a holiday together as a couple; just the two of you, seems like a marvelous idea. a chance to spend 24/7 days together and just hang out as a couple, bask in the love and attraction and chemistry. but with that chemistry and hormones comes the temptation of pre-marital sex. [i respect other people's views and these are just my own thoughts] then there is the excuse of 'trying things out' before you actually get married. a holiday seems like the perfect chance to 'try things out'. but this does not hold because 1) real life is nothing like a holiday; and 2) what if things don't work out? throw the relationship out the window? a relationship is about commitment and integrity and trust. so no, i don't want to get into a relationship to 'experience how it feels' or to 'gain experience'. i want to go into a relationship with the father of my future children.
NONETHELESS, I AM THANKFUL THAT I AM MEANINGFULLY EMPLOYED AND THAT I ENJOY WHAT I DID
met Joey for lunch today and that one hour was not enough!!!!!! we merely chatted a bit about her grad trip and my grad trip and then an hour had flown past and it was time to go back to the office T.T why does time fly when you're having fun???? (time also flies in the office; does that mean i'm having a lot of fun?)
i'm thankful that Joey asked about traveling together as a couple pre-marriage. i need to write this down so that one day, (if) i get into a relationship, then i'll remember this piece of advice that i told her.
going on a holiday together as a couple; just the two of you, seems like a marvelous idea. a chance to spend 24/7 days together and just hang out as a couple, bask in the love and attraction and chemistry. but with that chemistry and hormones comes the temptation of pre-marital sex. [i respect other people's views and these are just my own thoughts] then there is the excuse of 'trying things out' before you actually get married. a holiday seems like the perfect chance to 'try things out'. but this does not hold because 1) real life is nothing like a holiday; and 2) what if things don't work out? throw the relationship out the window? a relationship is about commitment and integrity and trust. so no, i don't want to get into a relationship to 'experience how it feels' or to 'gain experience'. i want to go into a relationship with the father of my future children.